That Bitch Stole My "Husband"

The Boy had a girl that he was friends with when he was little. I'm talking young here. At some point during our relationship they reconnected. We will call her "Jen" for the benefit of the story. "Jen" was married and had a child. "Jen" also had a degree in psychology.

The Boy and I had some issues. Personal issues apart from our relationship. That's not to say we didn't have relationship issues also. "Jen" loved to give her advice on how The Boy should handle me. I found this not only intrusive but suspicious also. Later on I found out that "Jen" was going through a divorce. I wasn't exactly worried that The Boy was cheating on me because he and "Jen" were in different towns at this point. Of course, The Boy and I weren't in the same town either.

Eventually, The Boy moved back to his hometown. Further away from me. No surprise to anyone, except me, we broke up. We kept in contact though. Professing to love and miss each other one day. Screaming and cussing the next. Eventually, he told me he was dating someone. I knew in my heart that it was her. Let me tell you just how big of a bitch I am. The Boy told me "Jen" and her child were moving in with him. I told him, "You better get first and last month's rent because you know you are gonna fuck it up." At another point when we were discussing money I said, "Just ask her for the money she owes you for being a Rent-A-Daddy." Yeah, I was, am, and probably will always be bitter.

I got an email one day months later asking me how I was doing. I, in return, asked if he was married or had she already left him. I'm a bitch to my core. Probably one of the reasons he left me. To my surprise, he told me he was married. Now here is where my professed insanity comes in. I wasn't sure if he was telling the truth or not. Did you know with just a little digging you can find people's marriage certificates online? You have to know where to look and some cities are easier than others. I took me awhile but I found it. All by myself. I didn't even use one of those services. I remembered once The Boy making fun of me because I thought it was ok to get married in Vegas. Vegas marriage certificates are really easy to find. The fucker got married in the very place he told me it was disrespectful to get married in.

Much later, I found out The Boy had a baby. You get the idea here right? They HAD to get married. Not only had the bitch stole my "husband" but she had my baby too. I am writing all of this because when I go back and read it I know I am nuts. I know it is time to move on. I know some of you reading this are thinking I need professional help. That may be true. Or maybe some of this is written in a sarcastic way that doesn't read well over the internet. Either way, I told you all in the beginning that something was seriously wrong with me. This might just be my way of making it better.

Comments

It must have been to late for you... to come out of all this.. why did you date/marry such a jerk after all if you hate him so much..for what he did to you?

Um.. well I hated him after the fact. Thought that was pretty fucking clear.

[Sean]

You're honesty is refreshing.

You might think you're a bitch but most people would think the same way in a similar situation, but wouldn't admit it.

I appreciate you thinking I am refreshing.

MY HUSBAND IS DATING A 30 SOMETHING BITCH OUR DIVORCE DATE IS MARCH 16 I HAVE HER SSN WHAT CAN I DO THAT WILL REALLY HURT THE WHORE AND I HAVE HER DOB

[newfieswoman]

ah, them 'bitches' that interfers where they isnt needed.......the nerves of them.....but not to worry.....yer allowed to be bitter oh yes....an me gives ya credit for bein so nice about it....me on the other hand wouldnt has been but me is a bitch to the core too.......loves yer posts

[Bella]

Okay, um. it is time you get over it! It is crazy to think about another man who is no longer yours and the woman he is now with. if you claim you are a bitch to the core. What makes YOU think you would not do the same if you were him? Evaluate yourself. And your situation. It's hard to forget, I KNOW! but if you stress on that shit. You will go crazy. While they are forever happy. And for the woman with the SSN of her ex's husbands Girlfriend. Do not do anything with it. Because you will look like a dumb ass when you get caught. And then he will know and be assured why he was divorcing you in the first place! Goodluck Folks.

[sassafras]

Just my personal opinion. Shouldn't you be more angry at your ex then this woman? It's not like he was a helpless victim that she just "stole". In fact, how exactly do you steal someone from someone else to begin with? Normally if person A is trying to attract person B but person B is in love with someone else, person B is going to reject person A and distance themselves from them. So if person A succeeds in attracting person B, doesn't that indicate that person B did not really have their whole heart into their other relationship?

Anyways, like I said, you should be more angry with him and the way he treated you then at her. Yeah, she may have been trying to sink her claws into a married man, but he let her.

[Craig]

I'm married, and had an affair with a girl half my age at work. Fucked her senseless one friday night at a motel. My wife was at home looking after our 8 week old baby boy. Fuck admin assistents are so gulible. This girl was drop dead gorgeous. Red hair green eyes, you get the idea. She took my mind off my wife straight away. But alas, her boyfreind and everyone at work found out and she had to leave town and went back to her folks. Me I just slink home to the missus like nothing ever happened. Do what you gotta do. If two people feel an atraction for each other at a certain time and place then sparks are gonna fly. Consequences unfortunatley arn't learned until it's too late.

I understand that this was frustrating to you. i am marrired and I have a friend that has slept with married men, its really puts a bad taste in my mouth. To make things worse she is pregnaunt by a married guy and now wants to stay with me. I just can't trust her at all becuase I think she may want my husband. I guess you can't prevent people from being who they are, just learn. You deserve better than that! And for the man who cheated, you really are aweful, if you need to fuck young things, then leave your wife, have you ever thought of the shit that you can bring back to your wife.

[jenna]

I may be a little late with this post so perhaps no one will read it, but I really can't stand people who say why blame the woman its the man you should be mad at...It takes two to tango. A woman that sleeps with a married man has no respect and there is something wrong with her. Yes the man is responsible also but what makes it ok to carry on a relationship with a married person? I will never understand it.

[Mad as hell]

I can understand where you are coming from. me and my husband seperated for about six month and with in that six month period. Yep you get guessed it he got some girl pregenant. I though I could deal with it on the stregenth that we was seperated at the time. But as the court dates laywer fees and child support start rolling in a sista is having second thoughts yes I love my husband to the day I die but I do feel like I love my self more. I hurt a lot behind this mess and I do understand that it was a mistake. Not sure how you are handeling it but guess what sweetie if he married her then that means yall are no longer married. this gives you the chance to move on with your life. Dont put your self in a box like I did. Just be thankful that you did have a way out. I traped myself by trying to be supportive and tryting to make it work but I must be honest it kills me every day to see that crib and know that the child it belongs to did not come from me. Yes I am still with him and trying to get thru each day with a smile. I know you are hurt but please dear internet friend look at my situation and feel relived that it's not you going thru. take care

[InjuredArseoIrish]

My wife not only cheated on me while I was supporting her and our three children, she had me arrested 8 times on false allegations, moved in with the fag, then had the balls to pretend she was remorseful. All the while, I took care of the house and the kids and when I sued her for Divorce I had to pay HER for living with her boyfriend because I made so much money. Then, she came back home, had me arrested 3 more times, I went to jail in front of my sons, she encouraged my daughter to disrespect and hit me and when she recently sued for divorce I got financially raped, kicked out of my house, cant see my kids and my professional license is in jeopardy as I face jail due to her jealousy....when she cheated and I didnt. That is a bitch!!!!!